My Mother's Story

Fearless, Passionate, Loving and Larger than Life, describes my mother, all in the same order. My Gorgeous mum was born on 17th May 1963 in a small town in Jammu and Kashmir. But that doesn't matter because later she married my father, an Army Man and traveled all across the country with him. 

My mother, known as Sneh (English meaning: Love) belongs to an X-Large family. X-large or XX-Large, I guess. I am saying this because they are all 7 siblings, all sisters and one brother. Mumma was a tom boy in her childhood. She was a theater artist in her college days, when theater was a term known to few in India. She Played badminton at the state level and always aspired to be a son in the family. But her destiny was planned like all of us and she met my father, a young, handsome newly commissioned Army Officer in the year 1985. It was November she says, and her elder sister and her husband who happened to be the armed forces too were the reason why and how my parents met. 

It wasn't a love at first sight for her (even though my father was floored seeing her at a gurudware: the Sikh holy temple for the very first time). This is also a reason why all SIKH festivals are celebrated with great elan in our family even though we are Hindus. So her elder sister convinced her to marry my father, because they thought he was a good match (how dating never existed in those times) and she said YES. They were soon engaged and then this lady agreed to go out with him. 

On 3rd May 1986, they married each other, exchanged vows and have been together ever since. It was all perfect until 2009. I faintly remember, I was all set to join my new university right after school and had moved to Delhi to join my elder sister who was completing her post graduation in the same university. We never knew that one day, a call from daddy would change our lives like it did. Daddy was strong and he told us, there was nothing, the doctors told mumma that she needed to undergo a brain surgery- LIKE WHAT?!

And then my parents moved to Delhi only to discover that my beautiful mother was diagnosed with Syringomyelia CPM type II. She underwent 2 brain surgeries ever since and is battling it out every single day.

This blog is dedicated to my mother, she has survived 2 brain surgeries, partial paralysis attack, has fixated neck (insertion of 2 platinum screws in her neck) and is a part of battle we didn't choose. 

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